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.. Issue: Cultivating Positive Black Male Black Female Relationships Question: What are the 3 most important things that Black women and Black men should do in order to cultivate and maintain positive mated relationships with each other? Sister Empress, ENDARKEN Guest Moderator |
Bill |
Dr. Frances Cress Welsing, a black psychiatrist suggests: Choosing a mate for a black person is like choosing a person to share a foxhole, during a battle. A foxhole mate is chosen based on qualities which promote mutuality in the foxhole... Remember, you spend most of your time "ducking" (the effects of white supremacy) .. People in foxholes don't have time or resources to "show off". .. People in foxholes attempt to protect each other. .. People in foxholes understand that they cannot completely protect each other. .. People in foxholes understand that sexual intercourse and or sexual play in a foxhole is reserved for the comfort, enjoyment and support of victims of attack (racism) or the production of offspring. .. People in foxholes understand that choosing to produce offspring in a foxhole, is risky and difficult business. .. People in foxholes understand that at all times the enemy is out there and that those in the foxhole are the targets. .. Any misunderstanding or disagreements in the foxhole are superceded by the external war, and must be minimized to protect the foxhole. .. There is not much "bliss" in a foxhole. .. There is no "state of happiness" in a foxhole. .. People in foxholes can be "happy" from time to time, generally they must make themselves happy from time to time. .. When disagreements in a foxhole prevent one or both people from protecting the foxhole to the best of their ability it is better for one person to dig a new foxhole. .. |
Cathy |
The three
most important things that a Black woman and Black man should do in order to cultivate and maintain a
positive mated relationship are to:
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Dawn |
What a woman should do?
[in order to cultivate and maintain positive mated relationships with each
other]:
What a man should do? [in order to cultivate and maintain positive mated relationships with each other]:
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Empress |
The three
most important things that a Black woman should do in order to cultivate and maintain a
positive mated relationship with a Black man are:
The three most important things that a Black man should do in order to cultivate and maintain a positive mated relationship with a Black woman are:
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Escofhari |
The three
most important things that a Black woman should do in order to cultivate and maintain a
positive mated relationship with a Black man are show:
The three most important things that a Black man should do in order to cultivate and maintain a positive mated relationship with a Black woman are to show: .. |
Jacki |
What are
the three most important things that a Black woman should do in order to cultivate and
maintain a positive mated relationship with a Black man? While I have my ideas, I'd like to hear what some brothers have to say on this one... The three most important things that a Black man should do in order to cultivate and maintain a positive mated relationship with a Black woman are to: ..
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Prema |
The three
(3) most important things that a Black female should do in order to cultivate and maintain
a positive mated relationship with a Black male are:
The three (3) most important things that a Black male should do in order to cultivate and maintain a positive mated relationship with a Black female are: .. |
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